Saturday, December 15, 2012

Over the Last Month

Is Christmas really just around the corner? Drew is getting funnier by the day. His one-sided scoot has turned into all-fours every once in a while, so he looks like a really fast gorilla scooting across the floor. He is such a snuggle-bug and is happiest being held or wrestled with. He holds out his hands to almost anybody so that he can get picked up. He loves to laugh and his toothy grin is contagious. He started clapping for himself after crawling to the top of his slide in the basement. His kisses are often open-mouthed and slobbery, but once in a while he will pucker up his little lips and plant one on you. He loves to crawl up and sit on the couch or on chairs and he can't get enough of climbing up and down the stairs. He is starting to stand on his own but gets ticked off when you try to get him to take a few steps. :) He gets along with Sage really well and loves to pull her hair and tickle her.. and he finally beat a five week double ear infection after three antibiotics!

Sage continues to love school and make new friends. She got a great report at her parent-teacher conference and we were told that she is very happy, friendly, and clean. :) No surprises there! She always comes home with some sort of project or artwork that she can hardly wait to share. Ella(s) still go to school with her in her backpack everyday, and it seems that they are accompanied by more friends as the weeks go by. Yesterday she brought seven stuffed animals home in her backpack (that she had apparently rounded-up on her morning trek throughout the house). Ross and I both agree that she has really grown up over the last couple of weeks. She seldom has tantrums and can generally be reasoned with. She is a wonderful helper and has a very sincere and empathetic heart. She loves her baby brother Drew. She can also be quite hilarious at times and she catches us off-guard with her dialogue.  For instance, she was walking out of Target with me the other night and saw a cart left out on the sidewalk. She told me that, "They're not responsible, Mommy!" She also had the time of her life on her special Daddy date when they went on a train ride from Boone to the "North Pole" and met Santa on Santa's Express. She got to wear pajamas, drink hot cocoa, sing carols, and listen to stories, but her favorite part of the night was "playing with her friends". We've also been fortunate with this nice weather to get to the zoo a few more times this winter.

 Here are our two monkeys snuggling up together:





Thursday, November 29, 2012

The big ONE!

Drew turned one on November 20th!

Cousin Luke helped out with the festivities, as usual. :)


 Drew really could have cared less about the gifts, but he enjoyed the paper. 
His friends at school made him the poster in the background. :)

He didn't know what to think about his cake...



 And as a true Mortenson, he hated getting dirty!

 Sage got spruced up for family photos. 


 But don't let the pigtails fool you. She can wrestle like a Franklin.


Ben really didn't know what to think...

Wednesday, November 14, 2012

Freedom!

Drew is helmet-free! We went for a routine appointment on Monday and decided that the helmet had done it's job. It was starting to really put a lot of pressure on his cheek bones and in order to prevent facial asymmetry from occurring, we decided to remove Drew's helmet for good. We are very happy with the progress that it has made. Over the next couple of months Drew's head will continue to round out on it's own. I find myself trying to snuggle with him at every opportunity possible now that there's not a plastic shield in between. I've already appreciated the lack of head-butts.


Drew is quite reckless and got used to being able to roll around and slam down on the floor head-first because his helmet always broke his landing. He's had to figure it out the hard way that he can't always dive to the ground head-first these days. :) He is also harder to find at pick up from daycare because we were so used to spotting his helmet! Now we can just look for his red hair! :) Hard to believe that he will turn one next week...

Monday, November 12, 2012

Just the Two of Us

Thank you, Grandma, for coming to stay with our kids, so that Ross and I could take a much-needed  vacation--just the two of us. We extended Ross' business trip to San Diego and spent the weekend hiking, shopping, reading, relaxing, and sleeping. It was simply wonderful!!






These pictures were taken over the course of a few days, but Ross and I didn't pack warm enough clothing for the 60 degree weather so we ended up wearing pretty much the same clothes for the duration of our trip--we were those people! :) We had so. much. fun!



Oh yeah, and Ross jumped off a cliff... :)

Sunday, October 21, 2012

Moves Like Jagger

While out shopping together as a family, Sage couldn't resist the techno beat thumping from Abercrombie.






Wednesday, October 17, 2012

Sager is 3!








What a special day! :)

Friday, October 12, 2012

October

Not great pictures, but hopefully these will appease Uncle Lucas so that he doesn't text me to tell me that I suck at updating our blog. :) Sage turns three next week, so there should be some birthday pictures coming soon. Life is busy!



On a separate note, Ross heard a great Halloween costume idea for Drew on the radio. We could attach bread pieces all over him and he could go as the Gingerbread Man... get it? :)

Tuesday, September 25, 2012

No Dogs Allowed

Here's Bubba, as we see him every day. Yes, our little guy wears a helmet. He has a flat spot on the posterior side of his head.
It developed slowly over the first couple months of life outside the womb, as we were instructed by our pediatrician and the American Academy of Pediatrics to always position him on his back when sleeping to prevent SIDS. What we were not told was that the "Back is Best" campaign was the result of misinterpretation in the slight rise of SIDS deaths over the past decade which were primarily due to outside factors such as smoking, etc, and not because babies were positioned on their sides or tummies.  So, yes, Drew developed into a back sleeper and when he was eventually positioned on his side, between towels, pool noodles under his sheets, etc., he could not get to sleep and would immediately fight to get back to laying on his back.

Couple this with severe colic and spending hours bouncing in our arms every night for the first couple of months of his life and his case doesn't get any better. After the 3-4 hours of blood-curdling screams, I slept with him in my arms on the couch for eight weeks. Eventually I had to go back to work and needed to get some sleep so we tried him in his crib to no avail. He would, however, sometimes sleep if he was in the swing. This... again... did not help the case of developing a flat head.  

Why am I telling you all of this? Perhaps it's some sort of therapy, but I also want others to learn from our situation.


When Drew was about five months old, a student's parent, who is an OT, overheard me telling a friend at work about his constant spitting up and irritability. Her response was, "how much tummy time does he get?" To which I replied, "Not much because he immediately spits up and freaks out." Apparently this was not the correct response. What I also didn't know at the time, and was then informed, was that tummy time is incredibly important for babies to not only maintain a beautifully round head :) but also to develop the esophageal sphincter that aids in digestion and keeps down milk--especially breast milk, which tends to be a bit thinner and sloshes around more than formula.  It was a catch22. He needed more tummy time to help aid in his digestion, but he already had reflux so bad that it was extremely difficult to keep him on his tummy. The result--more time laying on his back and flattening his head.

At about six months, our pediatrician told us that most babies start to move around more and spend less time laying down, so his head would probably start to even out on his own. I wasn't so sure. Sage was an early mover but Drew...not so much. He was quite content sitting in one spot and playing with his toys. All we had going for us to help reshape his head was gravity, which eventually aids in dropping and pushing the brain towards the posterior of the skull, thus rounding out their head.

I waited two more weeks and got a referral to a pediatric neurologist. That appointment led us to an orthotist (a medical professional that provides bracing for the body) at John Stoddard Cancer Center. They both agreed that Drew had moderate plagiocephaly, and that it would probably not correct itself. (Plagiocephaly occurs in 1 of 60 births since the "Back is Best" campaign.) It was our choice whether we wanted to help correct it, because it--in no way--effects his development, and would solely be for cosmetic reasons.

We learned that society views "beauty" in symmetry, which apparently means that the optimal head measurement is when the width of the head equals the depth--makes sense--a ratio of 100%. Drew's was 75%--whoa. The growth plates on the top of his head were also starting to form a point at the top of his skull and also push forward into his forehead so that his face appeared quite round. This means that he specifically has brachiocephalic plagiocephaly--the hardest to correct because there isn't another place on his skull that can fill in the void. His head simply has to grow into it. A baby's growth plates in the skull usually fuse by 14-18 months, at which time the cranial band will have no more effect.

This information, along with the fact that he is male and would probably have to deal with hair loss at some point in his life, encouraged us to opt for cranial band therapy, a.k.a. the helmet. 

Every three-four weeks, Sage, Drew, and I take a trip over to see his orthotist. Sage knows exactly where to park, what doors to open, which elevator to take, what buttons to push, and which hallway to go down until she pushes the handicap button and enters the office. Promptly, she sets down her backpack, goes to the water cooler to fill up a Dixie cup, says hi to the administrative assistant, searches for her favorite Elmo toy, and walks straight through the waiting room and into the examination room. She searches through the diaper bag for her measuring tape and snack and gets ready for the doctor to "measure Drew's head because it's flat".

It's become a part of our everyday life. He wears it 23 hours a day and doesn't seem to mind. He's had it since mid-July and we probably have at least another couple of months to go. Some day he will thank us for the silly looking helmet with the "no dogs allowed" sign.

                    July 18th                                                                 September 15th


Thursday, September 20, 2012

Monday, September 3, 2012

Family Pics

The photo above is one of the wonderful family photos that my sister, Trina, shot for us this summer. It's crazy how fast our kids keep changing! I will post more soon! :-)